It's so typical of us humans to take the things we have for granted. We believe that if we have something, it'll be ours forever but that is never true. Because anything, if not appreciated can vanish right before our eyes. And same goes for people. We have this pride that the person who loves and values us will stick around no matter what happens and how badly we treat them. We think that our behaviour won't change the fact that they will come back once again to give the relationship another chance. But that's the thing about nice people; they will keep coming back and keep trying but they're bound to get tired at some point. And they won't stick around being the glue to the relationship when they've had enough. They might be good people and they might even love you with all their might, but even so, no one has the tolerance for such treatment for that long a time, much less a lifetime. And why should they? When they know that there are other, better places where they'll be much more appreciated than they are now. People will always have better choices in life that they will eventually consider them when things get out of their hand. It depends upon us; should we let them choose the better and let a great person slip from our lives like that? Or should we become the better so as not to have any regrets later that we chased away a perfectly good thing due to a few consistent actions or a compromise not made?
Life gives us choices everyday. And sometimes these decisions are hard to make. But nonetheless, what needs to be done, needs to be done. We should just be wise about the decision we make and not let our vague insights ruin the things too good to lose.
Copyright © Wajiha Khalid. All rights reserved.
No comments:
Post a Comment